Gary Chapman has a very American confidence in his "Love Languages" hypotheses and illustrates it with many examples. Personally I believe there is something to it, though I think the classification is a bit arbitrary and we are all on a spectrum for each "love language". For a higher rating I would have preferred more scientific backing and clinical evidence instead of the almost too many anecdotal examples, though that's typical of American self-help books and this one holds up pretty well for its age. Expept maybethe Christian focus couples of men and women. But I thinke everybody can learn a thing or two.
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meliache reviewed The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Slightly dated self-help book for couples with some thruths despite more anecdotes than science
3 stars
Gary Chapman has a very American confidence in his "Love Languages" hypotheses and illustrates it with many examples. Personally I believe there is something to it, though I think the classification is a bit arbitrary and we are all on a spectrum for each "love language". For a higher rating I would have preferred more scientific backing and clinical evidence instead of the almost too many anecdotal examples, though that's typical of American self-help books and this one holds up pretty well for its age. Expept maybethe Christian focus couples of men and women. But I thinke everybody can learn a thing or two.
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meliache started reading In the Spell of the Barkley by Michiel Panhuysen

In the Spell of the Barkley by Michiel Panhuysen
Welcome to the Barkley Marathons, a fever dream of an ultra event, inspired by a prison break, heralded by a …
meliache started reading Baustellen der Nation by Philip Banse

Baustellen der Nation by Philip Banse, Ulf Buermeyer
Endlich: das Buch zu einem der größten Politik-Podcasts Deutschlands
Es bröckelt an den Fundamenten unseres Staates. Ob bei der …
meliache finished reading Entangled Life by Merlin Sheldrake

Entangled Life by Merlin Sheldrake
When we think of fungi, we likely think of mushrooms. But mushrooms are only fruiting bodies, analogous to apples on …
meliache reviewed Entangled Life by Merlin Sheldrake
An appetizer for the world of fungi, not a beginners mycology textbook
4 stars
Fungi are incredibly interesting and this book does them justice. It does an excellent job of describing their importance and the hidden connections between Fungi and plants, but also Fungi and humans. And it's written in a way that you feel close to the author, as he takes us on this journey.
I just wished there was more. More about different kinds of Fungi, more about recent science, about the importance of Fungi in different cultures etc. But I assume this is just no the scope and also not the ambition of this book, it's not meant to be an intro into mycology.
If I could I would give it 4.5 stars. It was very interesting and it made me want to dig more fungi related books, but it was not perfect. E.g. I felt a bit less invested than when reading "Never Home Alone" by Rob …
Fungi are incredibly interesting and this book does them justice. It does an excellent job of describing their importance and the hidden connections between Fungi and plants, but also Fungi and humans. And it's written in a way that you feel close to the author, as he takes us on this journey.
I just wished there was more. More about different kinds of Fungi, more about recent science, about the importance of Fungi in different cultures etc. But I assume this is just no the scope and also not the ambition of this book, it's not meant to be an intro into mycology.
If I could I would give it 4.5 stars. It was very interesting and it made me want to dig more fungi related books, but it was not perfect. E.g. I felt a bit less invested than when reading "Never Home Alone" by Rob Dunn last year and which is another biology popular science book talking about life that is normal hidden from us. Not sure why I preferred that, maybe it's the quality of the prose, maybe it felt more scientific and more complete. So as a nitpicky German I feel hesitant to give a perfect score, so 4 it is. But I'll definitely watch out for new books from Merlin Sheldrake.
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meliache wants to read I Want to Die but I Want to Eat Tteokbokki by Baek Se-Hee
meliache commented on Korean Stories For Language Learners by Julie Damron
@yetanotherjesse@mastodon.social I am now at story 22 out of 42 and "Korean Stories for Language Learners" is my favourite #Korean reading so far, but this might be that it's sitting just at my current proficiency level. I bought a bunch of other Korean reading books for learners [1], but they seemed even more difficult to me as a beginner.
Personally, I found that initially, the short stories introduced a lot of new vocabulary which I had not known before since they are not common everyday words today and thus not taught as absolute beginner vocabulary (the words for many animal names, King, prince, farmer, axe, ...). But most of these words are explained and they repeat between stories (e.g. 호랑이=tiger, 왕=king and 농부=farmer are very common), so it gets easier as you read more. Still it helped that I read the book mostly digitally in #Calibre with the "google …
@yetanotherjesse@mastodon.social I am now at story 22 out of 42 and "Korean Stories for Language Learners" is my favourite #Korean reading so far, but this might be that it's sitting just at my current proficiency level. I bought a bunch of other Korean reading books for learners [1], but they seemed even more difficult to me as a beginner.
Personally, I found that initially, the short stories introduced a lot of new vocabulary which I had not known before since they are not common everyday words today and thus not taught as absolute beginner vocabulary (the words for many animal names, King, prince, farmer, axe, ...). But most of these words are explained and they repeat between stories (e.g. 호랑이=tiger, 왕=king and 농부=farmer are very common), so it gets easier as you read more. Still it helped that I read the book mostly digitally in #Calibre with the "google translate" extension, so I can see the translation of entire sentences when in doubt.
Also at the beginning when I started reading I hadn't properly learned the formal language with the ~습/ㅂ니다 form, so I had to get used to that. (Most of the #TTMIK reading material that I started with are conversations and use the informal polite ~요 form.). But since then I learned the formal form in grammar lessons and it's important to know, but even if it's understandable. Sometimes the book uses indirect speech, which I didn't officially learn, but I started to recognize it and understand it from context.
Anyway, the vocabulary in this book is not the most modern one and the language is not like modern conversations. So it should not be your only Korean language input, but a useful addition. Still it's helpful for seeing "living" Korean language in the context of stories, not just grammar examples. Once you reach a level where understand 80-90% (with context) the stories are actually really fun in my opinion.
What I also really like about this book is also that it contains a link to free audio downloads where you can listen to the stories (The Olly Richards reading book requires paying for the audio). This is super useful for practicing listening but also pronunciation via #shadowing.
If this book is too difficult the simplest form of reading are just the example texts and sentences in regular Korean grammar textbooks (I started using 비타민 한국어 recently) or TTMIK's "Simple Korean reading for Beginners" and their different conversations with transcripts like 이야기, which teach you more of conversational Korean.
[1] Other Korean reading books that I bought so far: - "Korean Stories for Language Learners" by Julie Damron and EunSun You - "Short Stories for Korean Intermediate Learners" by Olly Richards - "Korean Reading Made Simple" by Billy Go
meliache started reading Entangled Life by Merlin Sheldrake

Entangled Life by Merlin Sheldrake
When we think of fungi, we likely think of mushrooms. But mushrooms are only fruiting bodies, analogous to apples on …
meliache started reading Korean Stories For Language Learners by Julie Damron
I finished the "TTMIK First 500 Korean Words" Anki flaskcard deck a while ago and am doing the level 3 grammar lessons of "Talk To Me In Korean" (TTMIK), but I really should start incorporate more easy Korean reading rather than focusing on isolated Anki vocabulary. Decided to give this a go.
I finished the "TTMIK First 500 Korean Words" Anki flaskcard deck a while ago and am doing the level 3 grammar lessons of "Talk To Me In Korean" (TTMIK), but I really should start incorporate more easy Korean reading rather than focusing on isolated Anki vocabulary. Decided to give this a go.
meliache wants to read The Vegetarian by Han Kang
"Human Acts" had a deep impact on me and is one of my favourite books, therefore I would like to eventually read "The Vegetarian" by Han Kang
"Human Acts" had a deep impact on me and is one of my favourite books, therefore I would like to eventually read "The Vegetarian" by Han Kang
meliache reviewed Human Acts by Han Kang (duplicate)
This book had a deep impact on me
5 stars
This book caught my attention in th bookstore due to the cover (I love magpies) but my girfriendewho had read "The Vegetarian" recommended the author. The author managed to create a deep connection between me and the characters, I felt their hope and tragedy, like I have rarely experienced. And I learned a chapter of Korean history that I had not known about, but that is only on the side, this is not a Korean history book. Anyway, this changed how I view news of conflict and war, e.g. recently the Ukraine war. Usually I am a very rational and not the most empathetic person, I followed the war from a point of view of military strategy and tactics, but this book encouraged me to think about all the suffering, all the courage and anl the "human acts" that are hidden from puplic view but surely must be happening.
This book caught my attention in th bookstore due to the cover (I love magpies) but my girfriendewho had read "The Vegetarian" recommended the author. The author managed to create a deep connection between me and the characters, I felt their hope and tragedy, like I have rarely experienced. And I learned a chapter of Korean history that I had not known about, but that is only on the side, this is not a Korean history book. Anyway, this changed how I view news of conflict and war, e.g. recently the Ukraine war. Usually I am a very rational and not the most empathetic person, I followed the war from a point of view of military strategy and tactics, but this book encouraged me to think about all the suffering, all the courage and anl the "human acts" that are hidden from puplic view but surely must be happening.
meliache rated Human Acts: 5 stars

Human Acts by Han Kang (duplicate)
From the internationally bestselling author of “The Vegetarian,” a rare and astonishing (The Observer) portrait of political unrest and the …







