Frida Liu is struggling. She doesn’t have a career worthy of her Chinese immigrant parents’ sacrifices. What’s worse is she can’t persuade her husband, Gust, to give up his wellness-obsessed younger mistress. Only with their angelic daughter Harriet does Frida finally feel she’s attained the perfection expected of her. Harriet may be all she has, but she’s just enough.
Until Frida has a horrible day.
The state has its eyes on mothers like Frida — ones who check their phones while their kids are on the playground; who let their children walk home alone; in other words, mothers who only have one lapse of judgement. Now, a host of government officials will determine if Frida is a candidate for a Big Brother-like institution that measures the success or failure of a mother’s devotion. Faced with the possibility of losing Harriet, Frida must prove that she can live up …
Frida Liu is struggling. She doesn’t have a career worthy of her Chinese immigrant parents’ sacrifices. What’s worse is she can’t persuade her husband, Gust, to give up his wellness-obsessed younger mistress. Only with their angelic daughter Harriet does Frida finally feel she’s attained the perfection expected of her. Harriet may be all she has, but she’s just enough.
Until Frida has a horrible day.
The state has its eyes on mothers like Frida — ones who check their phones while their kids are on the playground; who let their children walk home alone; in other words, mothers who only have one lapse of judgement. Now, a host of government officials will determine if Frida is a candidate for a Big Brother-like institution that measures the success or failure of a mother’s devotion. Faced with the possibility of losing Harriet, Frida must prove that she can live up to the standards set for mothers — that she can learn to be good.
This propulsive, witty page-turner explores the perils of “perfect” upper-middle-class parenting, the violence enacted upon women by the state and each other, and the boundless love a mother has for her daughter.
Review of 'The School for Good Mothers' on 'Goodreads'
4 stars
Good reading with some unexpected twists. Heartbreaking and touching at the same time. The story of a woman who's daughter is taken from her by Child Protective Services and her struggle to get her back.
Good reading with some unexpected twists. Heartbreaking and touching at the same time. The story of a woman who's daughter is taken from her by Child Protective Services and her struggle to get her back.
Review of 'The School for Good Mothers' on 'Goodreads'
4 stars
It's been hard for me to decide how to review this novel. It certainly was a page turner for me, and yet--I had some problems with the main character. For starters, Frida Liu had more than a "bad day." She left her toddler alone for over two hours, and she knew that she was doing it. That she refused to ask for help was overly proud, but that she chose not to take her child with her when she left the house is just inexplicable. So, right away, I felt that she deserved some consequences.
That said, the consequence she faces is bizarre. This is where the novel becomes dystopian. The dolls these parents had to use in training were the stuff of nightmares, and could easily be made into another story...meanwhile, the author did make an effective statement about the problems of child services: the racism, sexism, and classism …
It's been hard for me to decide how to review this novel. It certainly was a page turner for me, and yet--I had some problems with the main character. For starters, Frida Liu had more than a "bad day." She left her toddler alone for over two hours, and she knew that she was doing it. That she refused to ask for help was overly proud, but that she chose not to take her child with her when she left the house is just inexplicable. So, right away, I felt that she deserved some consequences.
That said, the consequence she faces is bizarre. This is where the novel becomes dystopian. The dolls these parents had to use in training were the stuff of nightmares, and could easily be made into another story...meanwhile, the author did make an effective statement about the problems of child services: the racism, sexism, and classism involved in child custody judgements.
In the end, I felt that Frida lost focus on what was best for her child and spurned the attention of those who loved her and wanted to help. I suppose the reader must decide whether this horrible "training" she was forced to complete is at fault for Frida's messed up perceptions. The system was certainly horrible for the child, and indeed, everyone involved. There is much to discuss here, but I do wish Frida had been a little more likeable.
